Encouragement – Frequently Asked Questions

Following are some of the most common statements made, or questions asked, by someone, male or female, who had one or more abortions and are in the denial stage. The Scripture answers the questions or brings truth to the statements ~

“It wasn’t a baby anyway”

Psalm 139:13-16 (Amplified Version) – 13. For You did form my inward parts; You did knit me together in my mother’s womb. 14. I will confess and praise You for You are fearful and wonderful and for the awful wonder of my birth! Wonderful are Your works, and that my inner self knows right well. 15. My frame was not hidden from You when I was being formed in secret [and] intricately and curiously wrought [as if embroidered with various colors] in the depths of the earth [a region of darkness and mystery]. 16. Your eyes saw my unformed substance, and in Your book all the days [of my life] were written before ever they took shape, when as yet there was none of them.

“My abortion happened so long ago that no one needs to know”

Hebrews 4:13 (Amplified Version) “And not a creature exists that is concealed from His sight, but all things are open and exposed, naked and defenseless to the eyes of Him with Whom we have to do.”

James 5:16 (Amplified Version) “Confess to one another therefore your faults (your slips, your false steps, your offenses, your sins) and pray [also] for one another, that you may be healed and restored [to a spiritual tone of mind and heart]. The earnest (heartfelt, continued) prayer of a righteous man makes tremendous power available [dynamic in its working].”

“How could abortion be wrong and still be legal in America?”

Proverbs 14:12 (Amplified Version) “There is a way which seems right to a man and appears straight before him, but at the end of it is the way of death.”

Deuteronomy 5:17 (Amplified Version) “You shall not murder.”

“Everyone told me it was just tissue”

Psalm 139:13-14 (Amplified Version) – 13. For You did form my inward parts; You did knit me together in my mother’s womb. 14. I will confess and praise You for You are fearful and wonderful and for the awful wonder of my birth! Wonderful are Your works, and that my inner self knows right well.

“It isn’t a life until birth”

Jeremiah 1:5 (Amplified Version) “Before I formed you in the womb I knew [and] approved of you [as My chosen instrument], and before you were born I separated and set you apart, consecrating you; [and] I appointed you as a prophet to the nations.”

Luke 1:41-42 (Amplified Version) 41. And it occurred that when Elizabeth heard Mary’s greeting, the baby leaped in her womb, and Elizabeth was filled with and controlled by the Holy Spirit. 42. And she cried out with a loud cry, and then exclaimed, Blessed (favored of God) above all other women are you! And blessed (favored of God) is the Fruit of your womb!

“Abortion is legal so I don’t think it is a sin”

1 John 1:8 (Amplified Version) If we say we have no sin [refusing to admit that we are sinners], we delude and lead ourselves astray, and the Truth [which the Gospel presents] is not in us [does not dwell in our hearts].

“Does God know my baby?”

Jeremiah 1:4-5 (Amplified Version) 4. Then the word of the Lord came to me [Jeremiah], saying, 5. Before I formed you in the womb I knew [and] approved of you [as My chosen instrument], and before you were born I separated and set you apart, consecrating you; [and] I appointed you as a prophet to the nations

“Can God forgive me?”

Psalm 103:10-12 (Amplified Version) 10. He has not dealt with us after our sins nor rewarded us according to our iniquities. 11. For as the heavens are high above the earth, so great are His mercy and loving-kindness toward those who reverently and worshipfully fear Him. 12. As far as the east is from the west, so far has He removed our transgressions from us.

Romans 5:6-8 (Amplified Version) 6. While we were yet in weakness [powerless to help ourselves], at the fitting time Christ died for (in behalf of) the ungodly. 7. Now it is an extraordinary thing for one to give his life even for an upright man, though perhaps for a noble and lovable and generous benefactor someone might even dare to die. 8. But God shows and clearly proves His [own] love for us by the fact that while we were still sinners, Christ (the Messiah, the Anointed One) died for us.

Colossians 2:13-14 (Amplified Version) 13. And you who were dead in trespasses and in the uncircumcision of your flesh (your sensuality, your sinful carnal nature), [God] brought to life together with [Christ], having [freely] forgiven us all our transgressions, 14. Having cancelled and blotted out and wiped away the handwriting of the note (bond) with its legal decrees and demands which was in force and stood against us (hostile to us). This [note with its regulations, decrees, and demands] He set aside and cleared completely out of our way by nailing it to [His] cross.

1 John 1:8-9 (Amplified Version) 8. If we say we have no sin [refusing to admit that we are sinners], we delude and lead ourselves astray, and the Truth [which the Gospel presents] is not in us [does not dwell in our hearts]. 9. If we [freely] admit that we have sinned and confess our sins, He is faithful and just (true to His own nature and promises) and will forgive our sins [dismiss our lawlessness] and [continuously] cleanse us from all unrighteousness [everything not in conformity to His will in purpose, thought, and action].

“Where is my baby?”

Matt 19:14 (Amplified Version) 14. But He said, Leave the children alone! Allow the little ones to come to Me, and do not forbid or restrain or hinder them, for of such [as these] is the kingdom of heaven composed.

“How can I become a child of God and go to heaven when I die?”

John 3:3 (Amplified Version) Jesus answered him, I assure you, most solemnly I tell you, that unless a person is born again (anew, from above), he cannot ever see (know, be acquainted with, and experience) the kingdom of God.

John 3:16 (Amplified Version) For God so greatly loved and dearly prized the world that He [even] gave up His only begotten (unique) Son, so that whoever believes in (trusts in, clings to, relies on) Him shall not perish (come to destruction, be lost) but have eternal (everlasting) life.

Roman 3:23 (Amplified Version) Since all have sinned and are falling short of the honor and glory which God bestows and receives.

Romans 6:23 (Amplified Version) For the wages which sin pays is death, but the [bountiful] free gift of God is eternal life through (in union with) Jesus Christ our Lord.

Romans 10:9-10 (Amplified Version) 9. Because if you acknowledge and confess with your lips that Jesus is Lord and in your heart believe (adhere to, trust in, and rely on the truth) that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. 10. For with the heart a person believes (adheres to, trusts in, and relies on Christ) and so is justified (declared righteous, acceptable to God), and with the mouth he confesses (declares openly and speaks out freely his faith) and confirms [his] salvation.

“But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, to those who believe in His name.” John 1:12

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